I feel compelled to provide her with a coat. Wouldn't it make me a bad mom if she DIDN'T have a winter coat?? But after looking at a nearly new-looking coat hanging in the closet all winter, I feel ambivalent about forking out the cash to get a new coat to replace the one which she may have outgrown, but has certainly not worn out.
A coworker says she no longer requires her 12- and 13-year-old daughters to wear their coats to school. In fact, she confessed that her 13yo doesn't even HAVE a winter coat (gasp!) For me, I think I will keep buying my daughter a coat. This is partly in order to cross my t's and dot my parenting i's ("yes, your honor, of course I bought her a coat..."), but mostly because I want to continue to win the dispute we have when she tells me she's cold. I mean really, how would I counter that complaint if she didn't have a coat at home in the closet???
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